I used to think stubbornness meant I was strong, independent, and unshakeable. But sometimes the qualities we’re proudest of stop serving us. For me, learning to tell the difference between holding my ground and simply being afraid to move has become an unexpected part of growth.

Fes overwhelmed every one of my senses. It was hot, chaotic, uncomfortable, mesmerizing—and gave me an experience I still carry with me years later.